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The world’s biggest coffee morning — how wonderful is that? Who doesn’t like a cup of coffee and some schmoozing?

I know that health care in the UK is very different from in the US. There are charitable trusts to financially support cancer programs. What I love about UK cancer groups is that they make a huge push to bring it home to the people. Not only do they make the public more aware of their programs, they offer great connectivity between cancer patients and the rest of the world, the so-called “normal” population:

http://coffee.macmillan.org.uk/Home.aspx

Here’s a little secret about events like this. They feel good. They feel human. They serve a real purpose, because they involve something we all enjoy doing — socializing over coffee. It’s part public awareness campaign, part fundraiser, and lots of fun. Not everyone can run a 5K or walk for a cause. But who can’t sit down with friends and neighbors for a cup of coffee? It’s so people-friendly.

The truth is there is nothing fun about cancer. It stinks. It changes families. It changes lives. It changes the people who have the disease. But when we connect on a human level and we reach out to share, that’s when communities form. That’s when support becomes real. “I’ve been there. Let me share with you the tricks I used to get through it.”

A lot of people shy away from support groups. Sometimes emotions are just too raw, too close to the surface. People don’t want to think about their feelings, let alone talk about them. That’s why events like the World’s Biggest Coffee Morning make sense. It’s about coming together in a fun way to deal with a nasty disease. Hats off to the Macmillan Cancer Support people. This is a brilliant idea.

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I’m a big believer in managing cancer by proactive effort. The more caregivers and cancer patients ask for information, the more they learn about it, the better the result. I’ve talked to a lot of people over the years and I am always surprised when I find out how many missed opportunities there are. Whether I am talking to a cancer widow who had no inkling that her husband’s cancer situation was so dire, or a new caregiver who doesn’t realize how important nutrition is for cancer survival, it strikes me that cancer education is critical to cancer management.

Sometimes the biggest obstacle for cancer patients and their families is that they are afraid to learn the truth. They hold back and hold it in, terrified to ask. Don’t be afraid to dip your big toe into the water. Don’t be afraid to get wet. Get yourself into the ocean of information about cancer. Learn to swim. The more you know about cancer, the better the outcome. Every cancer is different, just as every patient is different. It’s not a one-size-fits-all situation, so being able to target the kind of cancer, the stage it’s at, and the overall health of the individual patient means a better chance to manage the cancer. Generic cancer treatment often means the side effects overwhelm the patient, creating more problems than are solved. An individualized treatment plan takes into account the actual needs of the patient and works to insure that his or her health is better preserved. When an oncologist really seeks to understand a patient’s specific cancer situation, the outcome will be improved.

GE Healthcare just launched a new health initiative designed to help cancer patients ask, “Is my cancer different?” Why is this question so critical? Not every cancer responds to normal cancer protocols of treatment. Not every cancer patient does well with every cancer drug. Molecular level diagnostics can make a difference in outcome. This allows the oncologist to individualize the cancer treatment. The goal is to utilize molecular level diagnostics to better fit individual needs.

As a cancer caregiver, one of the most important jobs you have is to understand that the right treatment can make all the difference in the world. You want your loved one to have a fighting chance. The smarter the fight, the better the outcome. Sometimes surviving that extra day in better shape allows a cancer patient a window of opportunity to move forward towards a cure. With cancer, there are never any guarantees, but you can and you should always advocate for the best treatment available for your loved one’s cancer.

What does “Is My Cancer Different?” offer? This is a cancer education website. You can see patient-friendly informational videos. You can learn about new developments in cancer treatments. You can begin to understand that the better managed cancer is, the longer your loved one can not only live with cancer, but thrive. More birthdays, more joy, more laughter, more adventures, more life.

If you would like more information on “Is My Cancer Different?”, check out their link:
http://www.IsMyCancerDifferent.com/